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Boost your self esteem

As some of you may know I often work with Bodyism discussing body love, balance and how to live a happy healthy life.  It's great to collaborate with people who are like minded! Recently they asked me if I would share my top tips to help boost self esteem. It was of course my pleasure.

If you find yourself a little low on self esteem this month, then this is the article for you...

5 Ways To Instantly Boost Your Self-Esteem

Life nowadays can seem like a constant juggle. We are bombarded with unreal images daily on social media, TV and magazines and we can all feel a little overwhelmed, as if we haven’t quite reached our full potential.

A little bit of this is normal, however, if you feel constantly held back by a sense of self-doubt, it could be more than just the occasional ‘off day’ we all suffer with from time to time. Preventing you from ever achieving your full potential, low self-esteem can be both a debilitating and miserable. Thankfully, for those who do suffer from self-esteem issues, there are a wealth of tips and tricks you can try to help break the cycle and build your confidence back.

The term self-esteem refers to how we view ourselves. Self-esteem is the overall opinion we have and hold about ourselves and the value we place on ourselves as people. Low self-esteem is all about how we view ourselves internally – what we believe about ourselves – and is based on negativity: for example, ‘I’m unlovable’ or ‘I’m useless’ or ‘I’m worthless’. Of course, most of us have mixed opinions of ourselves, but if your overall opinion is that you are inadequate or inferior, if you feel that you have no true worth and are not entitled to the good things in life – that you are ‘undeserving’ – then this means your self-esteem is low.

Low self-esteem can be due to the beliefs you have about yourself which you think are fact, but in reality are only really thoughts. These beliefs and thoughts are based on the experiences you’ve had in life, and the messages that these experiences have given you about the person that you are.

As low self-esteem is based on thought process rather than fact, it is really important to gather all the thoughts you hold about yourself that are negative and then start to look for evidence to prove that the opposite is true. For example, if you believe that you are not ‘lovable’, instead of finding evidence to prove this thought true, you need to start looking for evidence to prove this is not true. You could ask yourself instead ‘Who does love me?’ – you will be able to say ‘my mum, my dad, my friends, my family, my boyfriend’ etc. It becomes hard to believe a thought when you have evidence to prove the opposite is actually true!

If you are suffering with low self-esteem here are my top 5 tips to overcome it:

  1. Question your thoughts.

    Are you conscious of what you are thinking? Thoughts create feelings, so starting to think carefully about your thoughts is key. Positive thoughts create positive feelings.

  2. Be kind to yourself.

    Tell yourself kind, loving statements that you would say to someone you love. Imagine your best friend next to you talking about you as a person – they would say lovely things like ‘She’s funny, kind, thoughtful’ etc. When you start looking at yourself from a friend’s point of view you will be amazed at how good you really are.

  3. The comparison is the thief of joy.

    You are unique and perfect just as you are! Comparison is a waste of your own time. Instead remember that someone else’s beauty does not mean the absence of your own.

  4. Gratitude is key to feeling better.

    When you feel down, think about all the wonderful things in your life and the things you have achieved – you’ll soon realize you are pretty special! You cannot feel grateful and miserable at the same time..

  5. Perfection does not exist

    Good enough, is really good enough.

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