Sometimes life just happens and we think things 'have gone wrong'.
If only it could be different. If only it had played out differently, worked out in a different form or gone the way we wanted it to.
Except, it shouldn’t have.
The thing with life is that it is always working exactly how it should be.
It is because it is happening, and if its happening (or happened) it was meant to be that way. No matter what.
Some people find this hard to get their head around. Especially when there is evil in this world. But even that always has a silver lining.
Byron Katie, an American coach has a great line which I often reflect on.
She is the author of a book called ‘It was always meant to happen that way”
She say’s “I am a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality.”
In other words, it is easier to love what is because ultimately, it is what it is….!
When we argue with reality, when we think things should be different we are not going with the ebb and flow of life.
When we argue with reality, when we think things should be different, we are creating our own pain.
When we argue with reality, when we think things should be different, we are not living in acceptance.
Acceptance is the only answer to your problems.
That and a total belief that its happening how it is meant to.
There is always better to come. The universe is always giving you what you need at the right time.
It just might not be your plan, but the great thing is, the universe always has a bigger and better plan ahead, better than you could ever imagine.
All you need to do is let go, believe and have faith.
You’ve got this.
Now get you're skates on x