Everything is a life lesson.
Every experience you have had, everything you encounter, everyone you have ever met, dated, worked with etc.
It's all been you, learning.
Lessons are all part of the learning experience we call ‘life.’
We get lessons daily and the best ones are the hardest ones.
You know, when things don’t go your way.
If you don’t get a job you wanted or a relationship doesn’t work out.
Those are the best.
Because the lesson you are learning is the first step towards growth.
Life is full of up's and down's.
It is how we process the down's that make or break us.
'I'm a failure', 'I messed up', 'It's the worst thing ever'....
No. Wrong. All it is, in whatever it is dressed up to be, is actually a lesson.
So many of my clients and students think that those down's mean they have failed.
That what has happened is the worst.thing.ever....
I don't agree. In fact, I think it is the total opposite.
It is the best. thing. ever!
Why? Because I don't believe in failure and I don't believe in 'messing up'.
I believe in growth.
It is all about what you are learning, what you are gaining in knowledge to propel you forward to a bigger, better more expansive you.
You can't learn this stuff in a comfort zone. You can't learn this stuff staying small. You can't learn this stuff by being perfect.
You have to learn lessons to grow.
So the next time you think you are having a breakdown, realise this; you are actually having a breakthrough.
Look at the situation, think about the lessons and grow the hell out of it.